How to EMOTIONALLY prepare to book your boudoir session.
How I see it is that if you’re reading this, have been thinking of a boudoir session for a while, or felt excitement when you first saw my page…
chances are that you’re ready!
It’s the fear that holds us back, or keeps us putting it off..
But the good news is that boudoir exists to BUILD the confidence that you may be needing!
So here’s some ways to feel more ‘ready’ to book your session
START PLANNING OUTFITS + DREAMING UP YOUR VISION!
You can look into some lingerie sites or just go onto pintrest and start pinning away!
This will get you in the vibe AND we can talk about your vision when we’re on the phone!
GET INSPIRED.
look through my website, faq, facebook group, and instagram to start envisioning yourself in the studio!
JOURNAL.
journal out your intentions! Write about why you want a shoot and how you’d like to feel during and after your shoot!
journal out why you’re EXCITED about for your boudoir session
If you’re giving a gift - brainstorm ways you can gift your photos to your love! An album they can flip through with you, texting them a tease before gifting, or making it a moment with a date night!
Journaling is SUCH a good way to get the nerves out and thoughts about what you really want in order!
DECIDE.
DECIDE that you deserve this and it is your time! Actively deciding tells your body and brain that you’re going to make the jump and figure it all out along the way. As you would with any
REMEMBER WE TAKE CARE OF THE DETAILS.
Helping you get ready, hair and makeup, posing… all you have to do is show up! So take the pressure off of you and let the professional handle it.
REMEMBER THAT THIS IS ALL ABOUT YOU.
Because I have so many beautiful clients posted online, clients tend to forget that these are for YOUR eyes only. And anyone YOU choose to share with!
Remembering this helps takes the nerves down a few notches because there is NOBODY to impress. Even when shooting, it’s just me and you there. Okay? It’s all about you, unless you want to share. :)
GO INTO BOOKING FEELING LIGHTER!
This is all for funsies, for self expression, to celebrate! It’s a new experience for you, so just be light about it and trust the process. Perfectionism is the killer of fun!
I promise it’ll end up better than you think. :)